Why are we so fearful as people? We fear failure, instead of seeing it as an attempt to accomplish something; we fear the future instead of loving the fact that we can do so much with it.
We fear loving deeply and deny ourselves the joy of immersing ourselves because we fear it will end. We fear material loss without realising if you earned it once, you can earn it again.
We fear speaking our mind, instead of feeling good we have something we believe in. We fear aging on the outside, instead of accepting gracefully the inevitable, and delighting in the maturity and experience that have come with the years!!! We fear disease without realizing our fears themselves manifest a majority of them. We fear death so much that we don’t revel in the joy of being alive. The list of fears goes on and on! In relationships too we harbour multiple fears.
Fear is limiting. A liability you could well do without. Live fully and without fear. Laugh loudly. Love deeply and passionately. If it falls apart, get up, dust yourself, and start again. Thank God for second helpings in the buffet life gives us! Revel in your individuality. The more you love being you, the more depth your relationship and life will have.