The Biggest lesson I have learnt so far….


One of the biggest lesson that I have learnt so far is to “Never Take Your Friends Seriously”…

I know this might sound very mean/ rude, but this is something we all need to accept this fact some day. Not all actually stay with you.. If I make a mistake, my work is to only apologize & not clarify … because, there are very few friends who actually deserve the clarification and your serious thinking…

For me, my really good friends need to be different, but still I would not think and cry so much about them. There have been incidents where I have had friends and they have left me, for reasons like- they have a boy friend now, I couldn’t join them in their gatherings for some reason, etc… I donot blame them for leaving me . Its actually time consuming,  because it actually doesnt make a difference to them..

F.R.I.E.N.D.S

For me if I want to know which are my true friends, I dont need proofs for them, people give me proofs.. our mutual friends give me the proofs, those who do small sweet things, which not all of your friends would do for you… things like very few would come all the way to meet you travelling 2hours in heavy rains, very few when you are sick and asleep would actually take care of you sitting besides you, very few would randomly gift you small things, very few would wake up at night 3am when you feel like talking to them, very few would actually give a reply back miss call late night..

Very very few could actually be so special. It might take years for some people to realize, because it took me too… Relationships built with years, last long than those that build up within months..

 

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5 thoughts on “The Biggest lesson I have learnt so far….

  1. We have good friends, best friends, mutual friends, and love of our life. Friends are ones who will be there for you, no matter how rough the waters. But, I have learned to be successful with yourself, you have to be your own best friend.
    Nice blog, enjoyed reading your stories.
    Happy Blogging from a Blogger.

  2. I wouldnt say that you take your friends lightly, I wouldnot even say we should hurt them, just because they hurt you OR they are not those special ones.. I just consider them more lenient.. 😉

  3. I have had friends and they have left me, for reasons like- they have a boy friend now, I couldn’t join them in their gatherings for some reason, etc…
    +
    I’m sure, Arva, the future will bring many new friends …

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